Change - Good or Bad?

Change - Good or Bad?

People deal with change differently.  Some like it, some hate it.  I land right in the middle.  I like it, if it is a change that I want to make, but I don’t like change if it is forced onto me or if it is out of my control.  I wonder how the Israelite’s felt about the change they went through coming out of Egypt.  On one hand, they wanted to see the change, to be freed from their slavery but on the other hand there was the unknown.  Following Moses, passing through the Red Sea, eating quail and manna, and wondering in the desert for 40 years before entering the promise land.  They got the change they wanted, freedom, but it came with a change in how they followed God. They had to learn to trust God in a new way.  This came to mind as I was thinking about how there are things that I need to change in my life as it pertains to my spiritual disciplines, my prayer life and how I read scripture.  My spiritual life had become a little stale and I wasn’t feeling a close connection to God. It wasn’t that I thought that God was pulling away, but more like that I was in a rut, and I needed a refresh, a renewal in my spiritual disciplines.  Have you ever felt that way?  Felt like you needed a change but weren’t sure where what that was or where to turn to for help?  We all go through this, and I think one of the best things we can do is to lean into the close trusted relationships with have with our spouse and friends.  It’s here that we really embrace what it means to live in Christian community.  We can ask others to pray for us and we can seek ideas of how they are staying connected to God.  That is what I did. I got turned on to a Lectio Divina app, Lectio 365, that leads me through a morning and evening devotion time. I really like it and I am in the process of making a part of my daily rituals.  I can tell you that through it I am feeling a better connection with our creator.  What are you doing for your spiritual growth?  I would love to hear about it. 

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

The Power of Transfiguration . . .

“He was transformed in front of them. His face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as light.” Matthew 17:2 (ceb)

This Sunday we celebrate Transfiguration Sunday.  This story is found in they synoptic gospels: Matthew, Mark and Luke and tells of Jesus taking three of the disciples up on a mountain top.  While on the mountain Jesus is joined with Moses and Elijah and the disciples see Jesus in his full glory. It is a powerful experience. Melinda Quivik writes about the power of the transfiguration this way, “The power of the Transfiguration is that it plants in our hearts and minds the brilliance of eternity on the mountain with the greatest prophets, emboldening us for the journey together as the body of Christ. The Transfiguration thus prepares us to come to terms with our humility, our soil nature, our utter dependence on God.”   I appreciate her views because it speaks to me of powerful nature of Christ and in turn how we are fully dependent on listening to God and following God in order to be the body of Christ for the world.  That we as the church are not called to have power over others but to rise up as dust that has been formed by the creator and given the breath of life from God.  So that we can share this same breath with others, so they too can come into light of the love that is found in Jesus. 

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

New Year . . . New Possibilities

Don’t remember the prior things; don’t ponder ancient history.
Look! I’m doing a new thing; now it sprouts up; don’t you recognize it?
I’m making a way in the desert, paths in the wilderness
. – Isaiah 43:18-19 (ceb)

I enjoyed the week between Christmas and New Years a lot when I worked at Acorn. That week was quiet, the phones were quiet, emails were light, customers’ demands were down and there just wasn’t a whole lot going on. It gave us a time to breathe and to look back on the past year and what was ahead for the coming year. The funny thing is, the same is still true. I find myself sitting a quiet office, reflecting on the year that is ending. Reflecting on the challenges we faced in 2020 with Covid, the election and the racial unrest in our country. It’s been hard, it’s been frustrating, and it’s been far from perfect, but in the end we are doing alright. I am sure we would like to put it all behind us, but can we? Can we forget what has taken place in 2020? I don’t think so, but I also think that it doesn’t mean that we should dwell on the past either. We can and should move forward and continue to anticipate with joy what 2021 holds for us. I am sure, as prophet Isaiah tells us, God has a new thing for us next year. What is that new thing? I am not sure but with God’s help we will see it and it will be great. The challenge for us is to look, see and listen for where God is leading us in 202, and then follow. Remember, with God all things are possible. So, here’s to a New Year and New Possibilities!

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

Rejoice Always, Be Thankful

“Rejoice always. Pray continually. Give thanks in every situation because this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” - 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (CEB)

To say that 2020 has been a challenge would be an understatement.  I am sure that some of you might be experiencing some the same feelings that I am having as we enter Thanksgiving and Christmas season.  They aren’t all feelings of joy and excitement, as they should be, because I am tired. Tired of not worshiping together at Church.  I am tired of needing to wear a mask as a way to show love to others. I am tired of not seeing smiling faces when we are at the store.  I am tired of not being able to visit with friends and love ones.  I am tired not being able to go to the movies and enjoy a box of popcorn.  I am tired of having my temperature checked, being asked the same questions over and over again.  I am just tired of it all. 

Then I read these verses from Paul’s letter to the Thessalonians and thought, Really? . . . Rejoice Always?  Give thanks in every situation?  Then my mind went to Absolutely Rejoice, because we can see that God is not tired and continually is blessing us in ways that we may not see right away. It may be hard to see at times, but God is moving and guiding us when we are struggling. Let’s think about this past year about just a few things we have done together with God’s help.  

  • New combined website for the Charge. 

  • Increase weekly communication of Circuit Writer.

  • Pivoted, fairly seamlessly, to online worship and bible studies.

  • Started a daily on-line devotional time called Reflections on Facebook. 

  • Provided food boxes for several families from the local elementary school over the summer, Thanksgiving and are in the process of providing additional food for Christmas. 

  • Continued support of the Western Hanover Action Team food pantry

  • Wood Ministry continued supplying wood and chimney cleaning for those in the community.

Even though we are not gathering together as much as we want, God is still at work at Beaverdam and Rouzie’s Chapel.  We have lots to be thankful for this year.  As we all are gathering around our Thanksgiving table this year, it will be different. It may feel different. There may not be as many seats around the table. Love ones might be missing.  Friends may not be as plentiful. I don’t know what you are struggling with this Thanksgiving but remember, God is still there. If God is there, everything will be alright.

I am praying for all of you to have a safe and joyful Thanksgiving.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

 

Sharing Communion

This week during our on-line worship service we will be sharing Holy Communion. Communion is only to be shared during the live broadcast of the service and can be used as a time of reflection as a recorded part of our worship service.
 
As United Methodists, we believe that all are welcome at God’s Table. Our communion liturgy begins with words spoken on Jesus’ behalf inviting “all who love him, who earnestly repent of their sin, and seek to live in peace with one another.” We pray this statement describes all who come to Christ’s Table to partake in this Holy mystery.

A Guide to Receiving Holy Communion During Online Worship
 
What type of elements are acceptable?
 
If, at all possible, use bread and grape juice. The type of bread doesn’t matter (i.e. sandwich bread, wheat bread, buns, pita, flatbread, etc.). In place of bread a cracker would be an acceptable substitute.
 
Are there items we shouldn’t use?
 
Yes. Please do not use items that “water down” the sacred nature of the Eucharist. For example: stay away from flavored crackers or goldfish, don’t use potato chips and soda, avoid things like Goldfish, avoid apple juice. Again, the desire is to allow the Communion elements to have a sacred feel. This is a holy meal and a holy moment; let’s allow it to be just that.
 
How should we set up Holy Communion?
 
Consider the following ideas:

  • Find a plate and cup/glass in your home that is NOT used on a frequent basis. Perhaps it’s a piece of fine china, a plate you picked up while traveling in a foreign country you’ve never eaten off of, a crystal goblet, or a dish used only during the holidays, or items that are family heirloom pieces and are typically for display. Following this simple guideline will allow the bread and cup to be “set apart” for this sacred purpose and not seen as regular or ordinary.

  • Before the service starts on Sunday, take the bread out of the container, place on the plate and cover it with a napkin. Second, pour the grape juice into your cup. Cover the juice with a napkin.

  • Once you have prepared your Communion elements place them in a special location. Try to create a holy space for them so that your family sees them. Perhaps a mantle or the center of your dining or kitchen table. Allow them to be the centerpiece rather than another item on an already crowded surface.


How do we administer and receive the elements?
 
Once the Minister has led you through the liturgy, prayed the prayer of consecration saying, “Pour out your Holy Spirit on us gathered here, and on these gifts of bread and wine. Make them be for us the body and blood of Christ, that we may be for the world the body of Christ, redeemed by his blood,” you will be invited to share the elements with your family.
 
During these intervening moments, take time to pray for one another, for friends and family, and concerns and situations around the world. Think about those whom you ordinarily worship with and lift them up in prayer. In short, transform this time as you receive Holy Communion and the brief moments afterwards into an opportunity for intercession on behalf of others.
 
What do we say as we share the elements?
 
Break the bread into pieces and say to one another, “The body of Christ, given for you.” Once everyone in your family has a piece of bread, you can then share the cup and say to one another, “The blood of Christ, given for you.” Each member of your family should take turns dipping the bread into the cup, and then everyone can receive the elements together.
 
Afterwards, the presiding Minister for the online service will pray a prayer of thanksgiving and then transition into the next portion of the service.
 
What if I don’t have those elements available or don’t want to participate?
 
If you do not have the necessary items available or were unable to secure them prior to the service, or if you do not want to participate, use this time for prayer. We will pray a blessing over those not taking part in communion.
 
What do we do with leftovers?
 
Please remember that these are consecrated elements. Dispose of them in a sacred fashion. Consume them completely if able. Since the elements came from the ground (wheat, grapes, etc.) they should go back into the ground. Thus, break the bread into small pieces and scatter them outside and pour the juice onto the ground.
 
Keep in mind
 
Holy Communion is a sacred moment and God has invited you and your family to the Table, and it might be less important whether the Table of the Lord is in the church building or in your own home. If you’d like to read further about our United Methodist understanding on Holy Communion, visit www.umc.org/en/content/ask-the-umc-what-do-i-need-to-know-about-holy-communion-in-the-united-methodist-church.
 
My thanks to Sugar Hill UMC of the North Georgia Conference for the development of this guide.

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

It's About Time!

It is hard to believe that it has been over six months, since we have been able to worship together in one space. I have missed seeing all of you greatly.  Even though we have been live streaming the 11 am worship service on Facebook and posting the service on the website, it is not the same when we cannot see each other’s face.
 
The Virginia Annual Conference leadership has been very purposeful and diligent in the requirements for us to be able to worship together again.  I am delighted to say that we are slowly coming back to in-person worship with a combined service at Rouzie’s Chapel. The safest place for you to worship is at home, and I encourage you to continue to view the on-line service, whenever possible.  We will continue to live stream the 11 am worship service on Facebook from Beaverdam every Sunday as we have during this unprecedented time.

Beaverdam UMC and Rouzie’s Chapel UMC have been collaborating in their approach to worship since the beginning of the pandemic.  The collaboration will continue as we move forward to gathering again for in-person worship.  In-person worship will look and feel different from pre-COVID times.  Soon you will be receiving information about the details of coming back to in-person worship. In the meantime, here are a few items that I would like to highlight as part of the requirements:

  • The service is one combined service at Rouzie's Chapel.

  • The service will start at 9:30 am.

  • Beaverdam is open ONLY for the team needed to live stream the 11 am service.

  • Masks must be worn at all times – no exceptions.

  • Proper 6-foot safe distancing must be followed (no personal contact)

  • You will be required to answer the questions on the Health Acknowledgement Form

  • No singing during worship

I know that the requirements may seem a little extreme, but we believe they are necessary in order to keep everyone as safe as possible.  Keeping safe is one of the ways we can show our love for our neighbor. The requirements are here for only a season, but unfortunately, we do not know how long we will be in this season.  This means that Advent and Christmas are going to be different this year.  We are currently planning some new Christmas traditions that I hope you will find exciting. 

Grace and Peace,
 
Pastor Owen

the gift of feedback

I have often wondered what type of feedback Jesus gave his disciples, and what came to mind was a passage from Matthew 17:17-20, which reads:

17 Jesus answered, “You faithless and crooked generation, how long will I be with you? How long will I put up with you? Bring the boy here to me.” 18 Then Jesus spoke harshly to the demon. And it came out of the child, who was healed from that time on.
19 Then the disciples came to Jesus in private and said, “Why couldn’t we throw the demon out?”
20 “Because you have little faith,” he said. “I assure you that if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you could say to this mountain, ‘Go from here to there,’ and it will go. There will be nothing that you can’t do.  (Common English Bible)

There are two things happening here.  One is the disciples are seeking feedback in their question, “Why couldn’t we throw the demon out?”. And secondly, Jesus is giving them feedback by his admonishment and answer to their question. These are some harsh words for the disciples to hear, but they were open and honest feedback that they needed to hear.

Feedback to me is a valuable tool, one that we sometimes underutilized. If we are the giving end of feedback and don’t give it, we don’t understand why the person isn’t changing or doing what we think needs to be done. If we are on the receiving end and not getting any, we think everything is going well and we are doing what we are supposed to be doing.  In both situations is the underlying problem of the lack of communication.  Feedback is important because it keeps the lines of communication open.  Communication is a two-way street. Good lines of communication are important because it allows us to see each other’s viewpoints and we can work through any issues.  Any past hurts can be healed, and the relationship can grow stronger.

I try my best to be for open to personal feedback with how I am doing as your Pastor. Very rarely do I get my feelings hurt if someone gives me open and honest feedback in person.  What I do struggle with and normally discount, is feedback that is anonymous or starts with the statements like “They are saying” or “Some people say”. This type of feedback is not helpful because the true conversations that need to happen with the offended person, don’t happen.  You might be thinking, why is Pastor Owen writing about feedback? Well, I am writing about feedback, not because there are any current issues, but because I want to live and model what giving and receiving good feedback should look like.  So, I invite your feedback on how we are doing as a Church.
 
Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen  

Staying Connected with God . . .

Boy, it’s hot outside again.  I don’t know about you, but I am ready for some cooler weather.  I enjoy the sunshine and the longer days but the humidity that comes with the dog days of summer can just go away.  The summer heat does get me out of my normal routine.  Speaking of routines, Ralphie likes to get out for a walk each day.  We normally go by the day care center that Tina works at so that Ralphie can see his peep’s. I think he gets as much happiness from seeing the kids as they do of seeing him. Then walk a loop through downtown Beaverdam.  I have noticed over the last few weeks that Ralphie has no interest in going for a longer walk.  As we leave the day care center, he starts pulling us back to Church.  His tongue is just hanging out, he is done.  So, we head back, he drinks some water and then takes a nap. The life of a dog, right? It doesn’t take long for him to wake up and then want to play.  He has to find a way to burn off that energy somehow.  I often wonder if our faith life shares those same challenges.  Realizing that when we get out of the normal routines of our spiritual life that we still have an inner need that needs to be fed.  Throughout the times that my daily routines have been disrupted and the seasons of my life have changed, the way I fed my spiritual growth has changed as well.  I find that I drop some items from my habits and picked up some new ones along the way.  The change is usually good, and the key is to make sure that I am continuing to grow in my relationship with God.  My prayer for you is that as you find things changing in your life, that you able to let go of the past and that you are also finding new ways of staying connected with God. 

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

Feeling Like Paul . . .

Let’s not get tired of doing good, because in time we’ll have a harvest if we don’t give up. – Galatians 6:9, (ceb)

Feeling like Paul . . .

Sometimes I feel like the Apostle Paul when he was jailed in Rome.  Paul while he was in prison in Rome wrote letters to the various Churches throughout the empire.  It was through these letters that Paul corrected, guided, taught, and inspired the new Christians.  I am sure it wasn’t Paul’s plan to spend 2 years or so in prison.  I am sure there were times when he felt alone, abandoned and at times hopeless because he couldn’t be with his people.  I don’t know about you, but I share some of those feelings during the last few months and it doesn’t seem to be getting easier.  I miss seeing and worshiping in person with all of you. I miss being in community with you. Paul wrote letters to the Churches back then, today we use Facebook and Zoom to stay in community with each other.  But it’s not the same.

I know a lot of you anxious for us to return to worshiping together. It will happen. When I am not sure, but it will happen.  So, what is keeping us from worshiping together?  It comes down to safety.  I think what we are missing the most about worshiping together is the fellowship time that we spend together. To be able to fellowship safely in the manner that I feel all of us want, we need to wait until “Stage Three” as outlined by the Bishop and the Cabinet.  Stage Two starts on this Sunday and requirements for Worship, to the Health Church Team, really limits the feel and flexibility we would have if we worshiped together.  There would be no congregational singing, masks would be required, registration to attend church would be required and the biggest thing to me is that there is no fellowship time.   Now am sure some of you are saying to yourself, but other churches are worshiping together, why can’t we?  I would answer that question like my momma used to tell me (I think), if everyone jumped off a bridge, should you?  The answer is of course, no. We need to be safe and do what we feel is right to keep us safe.  That means for us now, watching the live stream daily Reflections and Sunday Worship on Facebook and being a part of zoom bible study.  

Hang in there, there is hope. We will be gathered again soon enough and what a joyous time that will be!

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

 

 

God is Faithful

It is hard to believe that it has been 10 weeks since we have been able to gather for anything at Church.  I am missing seeing all of you in person and cannot wait until we can be back together.  I know that this season of Covid-19 has been hard for a lot of people.  We are morning the loss of not being around family and friends.  Folks have been laid off or had work hours cut back at their jobs.  We are all struggling in our own way.  I sometimes wish that I had a crystal ball that could predict the future and tell when all of this would be over, but I don’t. I, for one, am done. I am over the isolation. I am over the empty shelves at Food Lion. I am over not being able to share a meal with friends at a restaurant. I am over all of it. There isn’t any other way to put it, this just stinks. 

Even in the midst of my frustrations, I do see bright spots where God is working.  It warms my heart how adaptive we all have been since this has started.  We figured out how to worship God together by live streaming the weekly worship services on Facebook.  We are doing small group bible studies over Zoom. We started a daily Reflections time on-line. We have organized and are providing food this summer for a few families from Beaverdam Elementary School.  We continue to serve our community by giving to the Hotel Ministry and to WHEAT.  We have “opened” the Church by providing access to our Wi-Fi signal at Beaverdam UMC.  We are calling and checking in on each other.  The ministries of the Church are continuing!  God continues to bless us. 

What more can we ask for . . . God is faithful!

Grace and Peace,

Pastor Owen

Communion ?

I sure do miss spending time with all of you in person and, I admit, this social distancing thing is starting to get old but I hope we can find comfort that we are only in this time for a season. 

We are coming up on the first Sunday in April and Holy Week.  It has been our tradition to share in communion on the first Sunday of each month as well as Maundy Thursday and Easter Sunday.  I have had a few folks inquire as to if we will be having communion during our online worship services.  The short answer is No, we won’t. Now you might be asking why not, there are other denominations that will offer communion and there are even some United Methodist Churches who will, so why can’t we? That is a good question and it boils down to the theological understanding of the sacrament.  We as United Methodist believe that the elements, the bread and juice, become for us the body and blood of Christ.  We don’t believe they physically change in any way but through the holy mystery of communion Christ is present with us.  We believe that communion is a means of grace, a place where we can expect to meet God.  If you listen to the liturgy that is spoken during communion you will hear words something like, “may these gifts of grain and grape become the body and blood of Christ”.  It is at this point that we believe that Christ becomes present in the elements.  We also believe as United Methodist that communion should not be taken alone, that we should always be in Christian community and everyone is welcome to the table.  Sharing in community is one of the main reasons why we don’t do “drive-thru” communion.

There has been a lot of ink spilled over weather communion can be shared in an online community.  There are good arguments on both ends of the spectrum.  I even wrote a paper on the topic for one of my classes this past fall. (copies available upon request) It all boils down to our understanding of how the Holy Spirit is works during communion and it is more complex than I can cover in a blog. During this season that we find ourselves in, our Bishop and cabinet have instructed us not to share in communion online or any sort of “drive thru” means.  I will support their decision. I do want you to know that when we are able to gather again as the body of Christ in person, we will share Holy Communion together.   

In the meantime, we will be having a Love Feast on Maundy Thursday . . . details to follow.